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Post by katie2 on Apr 18, 2014 8:16:20 GMT -6
All right, I want to ask you something that may seem strange at first, but it is something that I have been struggling with in recent months, perhaps even weeks. I have lost a considerable amount of weight and I am happy with the results. However, I am not ‘happy’ with myself at all.
Despite the fact that others give you compliments about the weight loss, muscle tone, I still do not feel comfortable in my own skin. This despite having a significant other that calls you attractive and all the good stuff. The moment someone gives me a compliment I am instantly dismissive of it, but critique of any kind always hurts.
Has anyone else gone through the same thing? Have you experienced this feeling before where you cannot seem to shed the ‘old you’? And if so, how (if at all) did you recover from it? I have struggled with this for a while and keep pretending everything is OK, but the truth is that it is really not. Any help is much appreciated!
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Post by cindylanier on May 14, 2014 23:47:24 GMT -6
I have tried to lose weight before and it does feel frustrating. There is something so rewarding about losing the weight, but then you notice that nothing inside of you really changes all that much. You still feel the same way about yourself that you did before. Sorry that you are feeling the same way.
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